Wow it has been a long time since my last diary. Time has gone really quick and I just realized that I am back to ground zero once again. I worked really hard at Scharp Design or at least I thought I worked quite hard, but perhaps god has decided that I need to be challenged. I have to say I was quite said because that was my first full time proper job. When Ross told me that I can no longer stay because our office had no projects, my emotions went south. But I think I am accepting this quite professionally and maturely. Maybe this is what they called becoming a man! A real man!
It is time to plan for future, for tomorrow and never let yourself fall behind. No matter what happens as long as I am alive and still breathing. I can get over everything.
I noticed I have experienced a lot of pain in the last 24 months which is not bad. There were quite a number of sudden blows- Sorry David, the company decided to make you redundant because we have no projects in Sydney, you have improved and done well but we have to cut staff otherwise we will go bust; On Wednesday, I love you babe, drive home safe... On Friday, I want to be alone, whats wrong babe? ... I don't know... I am sorry... I don't love you or like you. Find a life and stop bothering me...
Anyways, but at least I don't have those fucking nightmares anymore, I think I was so close to find a psychiatrist, but I was too ashamed to tell. No one on this planet would think that was normal. But Then I searched on google and found out this phenomenon actually exists. Anyways, I can see I think about her a lot less and it is gradually getting out of my mind now.
I think I really like you David, Blah,Blah Blah .... I just got a boyfriend now and I had a dream about you last night...
Ohhhh k I see I see... Wow good luck. (What, you think I will get jealous?? There is a reason why I never asked you to be my girlfriend)
Why I say I am back to ground zero? Well I have basically nothing at the moment. A career that worth fighting for the rest of your life. A wife worth loving and giving for the rest of your life. Well it's not really happening is it Dave? Maybe it is a cliche that life is a loop, but it seems true. But I guess the only way I can comfort myself is to tell myself that I am prepared for the next loop or great fall as you may say. Anyways, I am bullet proof!!!
Should I take a holiday soon? I miss my grandma and my families in overseas.
Monday, October 29, 2012
Saturday, June 23, 2012
Keep on Fighting
Think like a champ, dream like a champ and behave like a champ.
I am A CHAMP. lalallaaa
Wednesday, November 9, 2011
又是一天
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Sunday, October 30, 2011
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Sunday, October 2, 2011
tommorrow
Its true. Pain is hard to brush off especially when it bothers you internally, but you have to accept and conquer it. Reality is not something you can choose. Pain can be a great feeling too. Embrace the pain david. Your are a happy, handsome, young individual with endless opportunities waiting for you! be happy ) haha btw my mates bought me a belt ( Gucci) ...
Here I would like to use this slogan I AM LOVING IT )
Cheer up David )
Tuesday, September 20, 2011
Tuesday, September 13, 2011
Tuesday, August 30, 2011
Wednesday, August 17, 2011
Thursday, July 21, 2011
Monday, July 18, 2011
Sunday, July 3, 2011
Thursday, June 30, 2011
July
Cool pic, miss snow now !!
need to see grandma, she s 85 now ))
july now )) so quick
wish I can go there !!!! ))
Tuesday, June 28, 2011
New )
My all time hero , National hero !! Hes back !
i should be back on the court as well
eVERY THING NEW ))))
ALL NEW)
擦肩而过
DAVID. If you are not feeling well just write dairy. Keeep writing until you get better. Say whatever you wana say .
I wana buy these things **********************************************************
Just remeber all the good things about her, good memories.)) Keep me happy
Well for me it was obvious she is my type, from the first time I saw her I knew she is what I wanted for a long time. She was ofcourse good looking, I liked how she is quiet and shy sometimes, she has a emotionless cool look sometimes which I like as well.She has a short temper and somtimes a bit mean and dont make sense. lol But I liked it because its kinda cute. Maybe it is opposite attraction i guess we are difernrent and theres no doubt about that, most of our fights were quite cute when I now look at it, maybe its just me, but for her its probably a painful build up of bad emotions until she finally couldnt handle it anymore. I dont regret being with her at all, I believe for me I had far more joy than pain, but for her its the opposite. Hey David look at it this way if you cant bring her any happiness ofcourse having you just a burden.
The answer is simple David, you liked who she is, why do you expect her to be someone else? You dont even like someone who talks non stop then why you expect her to explain and talk so much like that ? She just wanted to be alone and not being disturbed, what is wrong with that ? You dont feel like to have some time by yourself at times ? ask yourself. Why do you listen to those calm music and tried to stay focused alone ?? You dont do that ????? Ask yourself. When you expect someone to understand you first, why dont you try to understand others first David?
I really paniced, I was scared to loose. You lost your confidence David, its like a snow ball, one wrong step made you fell extremely hard! Lesson learnt David, when you unsure about what to do just stay quiet, dont talk.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Build youself back up David ! Re develope your thoughts, gaining more wisdom David.
Sunday, June 26, 2011
Monday June
Having a positive attitude is very important for me, it makes me to view the world in a much brighter picture, and usually your inside can be fueled with endless amount of energy. Been reading some texts about being great. I realised that most of the greatest people in the world have similar traits that is being positive and open minded. When things are not going your way, your faith would allow you to find some solution. Had a conversation with mum the other night, I suddenly felt that she has been an important mentor in my life amongst others, its hard to become a real man, in chinese we say a 大男人. Being a real man you really need to have a big heart meaning that the ability to forgive and not being narrow minded. Whenever there is a problem, being a man you need to look at yourself first. 懂得释怀，理解。有一个宽阔的胸膛才能做大事！ if you keep on blaming others for their faults you will never become successful. Having a "heart that is as wide as the open sea", otherwise you will just be a regular. I dont want to be a regular, I need to be a real strong man !
'A man who views the world the same at fifty as he did at twenty has wasted thirty years of his life.' By Ali. You need to constantly developing yourself so you are improving all the time David.
Positive, look forward !! open your mind !! never blame the world!!
把自己的心结打开，勇敢面对一切！
I totally agree with mum, a great personality can be the key to success, reshaping your personality and master it, it sounds very fundamental but in order to succeed you cant lack in that. learn from others and try to apply on yourself David, age 22 is just the start of my life, My future carrer and relationship will succeed if you stick with these fundamental rules of life. If you have great aspirations and postive attitude, you will get there David. Manage yourself first !! Learn to accept and be friendly!
'A man who views the world the same at fifty as he did at twenty has wasted thirty years of his life.' By Ali. You need to constantly developing yourself so you are improving all the time David.
Positive, look forward !! open your mind !! never blame the world!!
把自己的心结打开，勇敢面对一切！
I totally agree with mum, a great personality can be the key to success, reshaping your personality and master it, it sounds very fundamental but in order to succeed you cant lack in that. learn from others and try to apply on yourself David, age 22 is just the start of my life, My future carrer and relationship will succeed if you stick with these fundamental rules of life. If you have great aspirations and postive attitude, you will get there David. Manage yourself first !! Learn to accept and be friendly!
Thursday, June 23, 2011
Wednesday, June 22, 2011
REST IN PEACE
- 5 YEAR anniversary since grandad past away.
ALWAYS LOVE AND MISS YOU GRANDPA!!
been shooting hoops these days, got my game back gradually. )))))))))))))
neeed to work more on my legs !!!!!!!!
ALWAYS LOVE AND MISS YOU GRANDPA!!
been shooting hoops these days, got my game back gradually. )))))))))))))
neeed to work more on my legs !!!!!!!!
Tuesday, June 21, 2011
时常
或许她根本就没爱过你，DAVID 你别再傻了。 性格不合适是可以慢慢互相接受的，但是抛弃自己的爱可能就再也回不来了。 算了吧， 她早就把你删除了。 I thought we could of gone really far, naively how I thought I can accumulate all my 'good morning' greetings till the end of day, but it only lasted about 180 days.((
Cant help but...
Fast forward David...
Improve your self.
Mind really determines where you heading, if you think you want to marry someone one day, you might end up being there and end up solving all the problems along the way, if you think you clash with someone you dont want to try coz you dont want to fail, chances are you will end up leaving someone just tomorrow. Relationship needs two people, learn to accept other people's personality David, she left because of you didnt accept her first. Dont point fingers at others David, you really cant change anyone but yourself. You are no better than one else and no one is better than you !
Dont give up on yourself First David !
Go back and focus on your project!!
Wednesday
Cant help but...
Fast forward David...
Improve your self.
Mind really determines where you heading, if you think you want to marry someone one day, you might end up being there and end up solving all the problems along the way, if you think you clash with someone you dont want to try coz you dont want to fail, chances are you will end up leaving someone just tomorrow. Relationship needs two people, learn to accept other people's personality David, she left because of you didnt accept her first. Dont point fingers at others David, you really cant change anyone but yourself. You are no better than one else and no one is better than you !
Dont give up on yourself First David !
Go back and focus on your project!!
Wednesday
Saturday, June 18, 2011
Sunday
Took a day off to study for my exam, having a cup of tea and started day dreaming again. hahaha Decided to write another dairy for my sunday, been writing alot these days, maybe its because I need to calm my feelings. Ofcourse everyone who has got dumped will have a tough period of pain, well for me its the first time, but put it this way who can guarantee that life would be smooth all the way through. But a coward is someone who cant manage to get back, I still dont beleive I am a coward.
You cant change anyone but yourself David, I think its true,why cant I take a step back and identify my own problems and make some self improvement. Cant help myself so I did some reseach on google.lol so fucking gay hahaha
You have been possessive at times during the relationship and not giving enough space to the other, the result is she would lose the confidence on you, you are no longer the confident man like before. Thus lost of attraction. I think this saying is true though. I think its true I have shown too much insecurity. I think the main point is I appeared to be mentally weak, that is not being able to handle her mood at times. Fuck I think this is true, the article says most women lose interests because the man is too weak to handle them mentally. Should of read that shit before dating a girl. This is the key area I need to work on, its very true no wonder whenever my mum complains I gave her this annoyed face which makes her even more pissed off. I think i did the same to her as well. It shows you are mentally weak.... that is good theory~~
Other issues such as demanding and controlling.
I can see I have ticked all the boxes... lol omg
So for girl number whatever, becareful with these key issues. Totally wasnt aware ~~~
I found I ve been using the quote 'Get a life and find your own way!' as a motivation tool, lol so effective. She probably thought I would love her forever and work everything for this love as a heat of the moment thing, I was actually being serious. Bitter isnt it David?????
Well, you need every spices to make up a life! Fix yourself up = one step closer to a strong man = stronger man ==========================================================)
You cant change anyone but yourself David, I think its true,why cant I take a step back and identify my own problems and make some self improvement. Cant help myself so I did some reseach on google.lol so fucking gay hahaha
You have been possessive at times during the relationship and not giving enough space to the other, the result is she would lose the confidence on you, you are no longer the confident man like before. Thus lost of attraction. I think this saying is true though. I think its true I have shown too much insecurity. I think the main point is I appeared to be mentally weak, that is not being able to handle her mood at times. Fuck I think this is true, the article says most women lose interests because the man is too weak to handle them mentally. Should of read that shit before dating a girl. This is the key area I need to work on, its very true no wonder whenever my mum complains I gave her this annoyed face which makes her even more pissed off. I think i did the same to her as well. It shows you are mentally weak.... that is good theory~~
Other issues such as demanding and controlling.
I can see I have ticked all the boxes... lol omg
So for girl number whatever, becareful with these key issues. Totally wasnt aware ~~~
I found I ve been using the quote 'Get a life and find your own way!' as a motivation tool, lol so effective. She probably thought I would love her forever and work everything for this love as a heat of the moment thing, I was actually being serious. Bitter isnt it David?????
Well, you need every spices to make up a life! Fix yourself up = one step closer to a strong man = stronger man ==========================================================)
Thursday, June 16, 2011
缘分
缘分这东西说来就来，说走就走。 人生的变化实在是太快了，有时根本都接不住。
每天写写东西能让自己的心情好些。
Old school song I like, cant believe I still listen to this in 2011....
You are the only one for me - Brian Mcknight
You say you’ve seen too many things,
That turn out to be too good to be true.
Against your better judgment, opened up your heart,
’til you found the joke was on you.
Looking out on the rest of our lives,
If we’re gonna be together or apart
About the only way I know how to come,
Is right straight from my heart.
I want you now,
I’ll show you how
I can be the man you need me to be
I’ve been around,
But now I’ve found
That you’re the only one for me.
Say you’ll never fall again
You won’t subject yourself to such pain
If you give me half a chance I will
Never leave you standing out in the rain
But if you think that I could look you in your face and lie right
Through my teeth
Then turn around and walk away
Cross my heart, girl I care for you and when I look into your eyes i
Must say...
I need you now
I’ll show you how
I can be the man you need me to be
I’ve been around
But now I’ve found
That you’re the only one for me
I need you so
I can’t let go
Gonna be all that I can be
I want you still
I always will
Cause you’re the only one for me
La la lla la la la la
La la
La la la la la la
La la lla la la la la
La la
La la la la la la
I want you now
I’ll show you how
I can be the man you need me to be
I’ve been around
But now I’ve found
That you’re the only one for me
I need you so
I can’t let go
Gonna be all that I can be
I want you still
I always will
Cause you’re the only one for me
每天写写东西能让自己的心情好些。
Old school song I like, cant believe I still listen to this in 2011....
You are the only one for me - Brian Mcknight
You say you’ve seen too many things,
That turn out to be too good to be true.
Against your better judgment, opened up your heart,
’til you found the joke was on you.
Looking out on the rest of our lives,
If we’re gonna be together or apart
About the only way I know how to come,
Is right straight from my heart.
I want you now,
I’ll show you how
I can be the man you need me to be
I’ve been around,
But now I’ve found
That you’re the only one for me.
Say you’ll never fall again
You won’t subject yourself to such pain
If you give me half a chance I will
Never leave you standing out in the rain
But if you think that I could look you in your face and lie right
Through my teeth
Then turn around and walk away
Cross my heart, girl I care for you and when I look into your eyes i
Must say...
I need you now
I’ll show you how
I can be the man you need me to be
I’ve been around
But now I’ve found
That you’re the only one for me
I need you so
I can’t let go
Gonna be all that I can be
I want you still
I always will
Cause you’re the only one for me
La la lla la la la la
La la
La la la la la la
La la lla la la la la
La la
La la la la la la
I want you now
I’ll show you how
I can be the man you need me to be
I’ve been around
But now I’ve found
That you’re the only one for me
I need you so
I can’t let go
Gonna be all that I can be
I want you still
I always will
Cause you’re the only one for me
wake up
Wake up David!!!
Its over, emotions up and down is not good for you !
Stay strong !
You know how you failed ? It is because you cant control your emotions!!!
No one likes that !!!
Get a life ! Find your way David !
Are you gana admit you have been defeated ?!!
BE A FUCKING MAN CAN U ?!
Change yourself David
Its over, emotions up and down is not good for you !
Stay strong !
You know how you failed ? It is because you cant control your emotions!!!
No one likes that !!!
Get a life ! Find your way David !
Are you gana admit you have been defeated ?!!
BE A FUCKING MAN CAN U ?!
Change yourself David
Sunday, June 12, 2011
Monday
- Just be yourself David, tried to act a bit caring but made yourself look like a soft pussy in the last relationship, behaved like a caring-less ass hole in the one before. LoL Get it right next time David !!
Just fucking be yourself lol.
I need a spanish girl hmmm
Just fucking be yourself lol.
I need a spanish girl hmmm
Thursday, June 9, 2011
New day new hair cut !!
I am coming soon !!
Had a new hair cut, good morning world ! I discovered that Chant music is really good to calm your inside. WOOO SAHHH ...... Control your temper David !!
Tuesday, June 7, 2011
Save money !!!!!
The importance of compounding, be financial smart David, eventhough I dont have much money !!!!!!!!!!!
I need more self descipline!!!
Go out and Run !!!!!
Stay focused with what you are doing !!!
Read more !!!!
Lol.... Just read a about the importance of Compound effect ! Great book now how can I change my life ~~~ Maybe I should start changing step by step !
NO MORE SPENDING !!!! BUT I WANT A NEW SHIRT (
I like Tony givens, he is a good motivator !!
It is all about your mind David !!!!! ALL IN YOUR MIND !!
BE POSITIVE ! LOOK FORWARD, I AM ACTUALLY AMAZED HOW I can get back on track this quick lol .. spoke to some good friends and family members ... ))) Me like this weather as well ....
Tonight's goal, finish all the interior of the building, run to the beach and back, no fucking rest DAVID !!! PUSH YOURSELF YOU LAZY BASTARD !!!!
LOOK YOURSELF IN THE MIRROR AND SAY FUCK YOU DAVID !!! SAY IT TO YOURSELF YOU DONT KNOW YOURSELF !!! HAHAHA
8/06/11 LALAALALALALALAALALALALALAALALALALALALAALALALALALALALALALALAALAL
DONT EAT TOO MUCH ON FRIDAY BITCH LOL I AM WARNING YOU RIGHT NOW DAVID !!!!
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